Money Matters

We are making a budget and paying bills. We are tracking expenses and balancing the checkbook. We talk about what we need and how the money comes in and goes out. It is the most mundane thing and the biggest deal. We look at the expenses and obligations we incurred in our other lives and we talk about how our past lives and marriages impact us financially and how that affects us as we move forward. It is another kind of intimacy and I feel its power.