The friend told her to get very quiet and “make a list of
all the things that upset you, annoy you and that you don’t like about him”.
Then very carefully look at that list and ask yourself: “Can you accept each
item on that list?”
If you can say yes then you should marry him because those are the things that will not change.
Brilliant advice? I think so.
2 comments:
Yes. Hands down best advice.
Worst advice I received? "Don't go to bed angry." Shit. When is the worst time to try to process and come to a loving, accepting place? After a fight when we're angry and tired!!! For the love of God, go to sleep. It will wait if it's important, if it's not, we'll laugh about it in the morning.
Meg--You are soooo right. The tired-er I get the dumber I get:)
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