We know about the Boomer Bump. The huge demographic shift
that is overtaking our economy and healthcare system is changing our family and
social dynamics in many ways. Our
rapidly aging community means more caregivers of all ages, more sandwich caregivers
and greater longevity but also more disability.
And it also means more drug addiction and more misuse of
drugs and alcohol.
The tsunami for older adults using and misusing substances
is tricky because we have social and cultural blocks to seeing and addressing
the issue. Can’t Gramma enjoy her glass of wine? Why should Grampa be in pain
if his doctor is giving him prescriptions? And the doctor says it’s OK, what’s
the big deal?
But it is a big deal because we are seeing huge increases in
the number of people in their 50’s and 60’s as first time users of marijuana and
cocaine. I know, seems crazy right? But Gramps is not down on the corner
scoring the stuff from some kid, he’s buying it at the senior center and in the
assisted living lobby and it comes to his door in the high-rise.
And the numbers compound when you consider that 10,000
people turn 65 everyday in the United States.
We know that alcohol and drug use increase with stress and
this is the group who are facing endless caregiving. Being a family caregiver
is no longer a 12 to 18 month task while someone progresses thru a serious
illness. Better healthcare means that caregiving will go on and on and on and,
well, who would deny someone in that situation some wine, or some Valium or
some Ambien or if you are exhausted, a little cocaine?
Most folks over 60 have an average eleven medications
prescribed for them by an average of three doctors. The most prescribed
medications for seniors are Benzodiazepines: Valium, Zanex, Ambien etc. They
are central nervous system depressants. And highly addictive. And they mimic
the symptoms of dementia—so family, and even physicians, can be fooled.
Opiates are prescribed for pain. But chronic use can
actually lower one’s pain threshold. Chronic opiate use—with prescribed
medications—can lead patients to feel more pain—so then it seems natural to ask
for and take more and stronger pain meds.
Caregivers of people with chronic illness are living with
huge unspoken resentment and grief. It’s not what they imagined retirement to
be. Where is the fun? Where is the adventure they worked so hard to afford?
So why not some wine or one of those new drinks? Boomers who
may have used pot in their 20’s and gave it up for work and family often
romance the idea of being able to use pot again after retirement. But the pot
they are buying today is not what they smoked in college. It is much stronger
and laced with coke and speed and other drugs.
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